Cancelled. on Monday, March 8, 2010, 1:36 PM
In a relationship, there is always going to be a constant give and take action. You’ll have to compromise often, and along the way you may find yourself truly developing strong feelings for this person. But don’t forget, you should never make them your entire world. You weren’t their first, and they might not be your last. Understand that, a relationship is shared by two seperate people. You will have your journey’s together, and grow together as a couple, but you two will also grow seperately as individuals. If you grow more in love with eachother, that’s great. But if you don’t, that’s fine. They were yours for a certain time for a reason. Love them wisely, but don’t lose yourself in them. Don’t make important decisions and choices based off of them, but based off of what you need/want. I’ve seen close friends make foolish mistakes, just because of love.Boy: What do we do now, where do we go from here?
Girl: You know I love you, we’ll find a way to make this work.. I’ll move too if I have to.
Boy: I don’t want you to make such a big decision just because of me.. If you want to move, move for yourself and your needs. Not for me.
Girl: Why the hell would I move if it wasn’t for you? For us? Don’t you want us to work out anymore?!
Boy: I don’t want you to give up so much, and expect something back in return. Things change for a reason. If we were meant to be, everything will work out later on.
Be smart. Love your significant other, but love yourself more. Have your own opinions aside from theirs, do things without their help, and care more about yourself than you care for them. Don’t change anything about yourself or your life to stay with them. Be proud to be your own person outside of your ‘us’. Be strong enough to go for what you want out of life, with or without them.A relationship consists of two different people. Not two people trying to be one person. Two halves may make a whole, but when one half leaves, you’re not whole anymore.
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Yesterday, i was supposed to attend work. I already got ready & was about to leave my house in 15mins tyme, in the end? They cancelled out on me, telling me that i don't have to turn up because theres not much customer around anyway so i rest at home better. WTH? I already siap all siaa, then they cancelled out on me, LAST MINUTE. & I abhore being cancelled out on last minute, seriously. Aiyoo. But anyway, since i actually was suppose to go to work, i went out instead with my working uniform to meet up with Azura ^^ It's been soooooo long since we met, & now i realized shes really under a lot of pressure & shes going through a hell lot of bullshit. Poor thing yknow, i really sympathize her. Anyway, met up with her then went to Loyang Point to change as i brought extra clothes, hehe. Changed, then headed to DTE to meet her Mum to get cash. Met her Abg angkat, who helped to buy ciggs for us (: Went off to eat Macs, then headed to Tamp library area there. Slacked there, then Khai came to meet me ^^ Happy lah dokk! Like finally, hahaha. We slacked under one of the blocks, afterwhich we moved over to Sunplaza park. Slacked there till 8:45pm, sent Khai to the bus stop & he headed home. Azura & i then headed back to P.Ris, around WSPS area there. Bought cup noodles & drinks, ate & slacked till 11:15pm. :D Late eyh? I've been slacking a lot, which leads to spending more cash on ciggs & more smoking & dying early, HAHAHAHA! Okay lame -.- But factual, ain't it? Hehe. Anyhoos, I walked home while Azura bused home. We talked a lot & i realized she has lots of problems, tons & tons of them & really hate to see the state that shes in. I hope she will be fine anyway (: Cheer up babe, remember your promise to Khai :D Well, i reached home, bathed & wash up & off to bed. Hehe. Today, i'm not doing anything. Am staying home to rottttttttt. Hahahaha, home alone, again -.- Oh wells, i think i am done here, wanna find something to do, ciaosxz ~
